Too many fellas have fuck buddies all wrong
A lot of guys like to talk a big deal about fuck buddies. They think the whole concept of fuck buddies is the hottest thing since sliced bread. I’m not going to deny them that. If that’s your thing, you are more than entitled to feel that way. The problem is too many of these guys are just talking out of their asses. They don’t know what the fuck they are talking about. In fact, most of these guys have fuck buddies all wrong. Here are the reasons why.
They emphasize the sex too much
This should not come as a surprise. Most guys are driven by sex when trying to find fuck buddies. In fact, if guys weren’t naturally horny the population of the world would probably fit a tiny small European nation. Male sex drive, for better or worse, drives much of human biology. I’m not saying that women aren’t horny, but males tend to predominate by an exponential factor of thousands. That’s how horny they are. This is of course reflected in guys who tell all sorts of fuck buddies stories. They emphasize the sex too much.
But if you look at it from a purely objective perspective, the whole concept of fuck buddies is that they’re your buddies. In other words, that’s what makes the relationship awesome. You can go shopping together, you can go hiking together, you can even travel to different countries together, and from time to time, she gets to suck your dick and you get to eat her pussy. How awesome is that?
It really is all about being friends
The truth is a lot of guys get the whole fuck buddy arrangement wrong because they neglect the friendship factor. If you are serious about developing and cultivating fuck buddies, never ever discount the value of friendship. Make sure you’re friends first so that when you fuck around and have a good time with each other, the friendship never really gets away.
If you do it right, you can have a fuck buddy and end up marrying somebody else and still be good friends, of course with no sex, with your former fuck buddy. How awesome is that? It’s all about the friendship. Never throw away the baby with the bathwater.